After posting a link to a New Year autobiography exercise, we invited PWC members to share their own reminiscences of 2016. River Mourningstar answered that call.
And Then, She Stepped Off of the Edge
It was high summer, last year, when my life took a ninety degree turn
and I, not expecting it, stepped gleefully over the edge of the sheer
cliff face and into free fall. His easy manner and kind eyes tripped me
up in the most beautiful manner and I found myself having to trust my
all too broken wings.
We had been friends for some time, years. We enjoyed each other’s
company tremendously, but life never allowed us to have time alone,
until that point. He believes in being a gentleman. He believes life is
to be explored. He believes the unknown should become the known. He
believes to be fully human is to live fully. He believes that he is not
human, but other.
The two of us, coming together, two halves of a whole, yet complete
unto ourselves created ripples in the aether. Without a word spoken, we
know what the other needs. Without a painful word, we know what the
other thinks. We came together last summer, two children of the night,
recognizing in the other that kindred spirit.
Our hearts had been shattered by others. Our souls splintered and
afraid of what was to come. Our bad days outnumbered our good days. Our
lives were full of people, yet we stood on the periphery, watching,
listening. Individually, we stood and looked at those we loved and
admired and we looked at those who loved and admired us. We couldn’t
understand why. We couldn’t understand why they loved us, why they
insisted upon being in our company. As individuals, we could see and
feel just how different we were from them, but we wanted to belong. We
wanted the friendship. We wanted the camaraderie. We wanted to be seen
and appreciated for who and what we were.
It wasn’t until our coming together did we understand that what makes
us different also makes us a beacon for others. It wasn’t until our
coming together did we understand that we do not, necessarily, need
those around us, at least no in the same way that they seem to need us.
Our romance was whirlwind. In two months, we spent nearly every
spare moment together. We gave to each other the things we knew,
instinctively, the other needed. He brought me gifts unlike any I’d ever
received: incense, robes, a sword. I gifted him body jewelry and (my
pride as a southern woman) hearty, home cooked meals. We shared
knowledge we had gained on our individual spiritual paths. We opened up
latent gifts within each other.
As children of the night, we peered curiously into each others abyss.
We gazed into that darkness, always the same, yet different, and
embraced it. We looked into each others oft tortured souls and
acknowledged the pain and hurt there, soothed it with the balm we each
so terribly needed. Without judgment, we opened ourselves to each other.
In another month, we began planning a wedding. A month after that, we
wed. In less than six months time we realized that each other was what
our life had been missing.
Becoming the Sacred Fool, stepping over the edge of the cliff, has
opened a great many doors. The only trouble now has become deciding
which door to walk through. No matter the shadows, no matter the light,
no matter the obstacle, we work as a team. Life is not easy by any
means, but it is easier because we work together.
I let my demons out to play with his and they began a dark and
macabre dance. He and I reveled in their joy. We reveled in their
happiness. We reveled in their bloodletting. We still do. We stand in
awe of each other, flanked by our demons, accepting each other for who
we are. Oh, we still butt heads. We wouldn’t be human if we didn’t. Yet,
when our demons decide to not play nicely together, we manage to find a
way to tame them.
The last year of my life, 2016, did not even begin until June. My own
eyes were closed to life and living until that moment. It was only when
my darkness touched a kindred dark did I begin to see. When I began to
see became the moment I began to live again. It took another child of
the night to remind me that sometimes we must waltz with the shadows to
be fully awake.
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River Mourningstar is a writer, wife, and Priestess of the Craft, among other things. She has been writing most of her life because the people in her head just won't shut up. She tends to be a jack of all trades, prankster, and a mystery to those who meet her. She lives in the Midwestern US with her husband, cat, and an aquarium of aquatic oddities. You can find her on her blogs Waltzing with Shadows and Ramblings of a Confused Muse, and on Facebook.
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